Friday, March 14, 2014

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Friday, February 21, 2014

The Joys and Frustrations of Parenting Are Closely Woven ~

I truly love being a mom but it seems the more I care and try to help my 13 year old get where she needs to, the more frustrated I get with her.

She is a great girl, loves the Lord, loves her friends which could be part of the problem here when it comes to school and priorities with grades.  I am proud of her and all that she has accomplished, a lot of it on her own while I have been holding down 3 part time positions working 3 to 4 nights of 15 hours for almost 3 years.  But her last progress report was disappointing.  I don't expect A's but for her to always do her BEST.  She has openly said she has not been doing all she can, so in the midst of the past week, she no longer has phone and social privileges.  Thought we were heading in the right direction this week with all her early and late tutorials only to find out she is now failing Science.  That strategy worked well!

Some days I wonder, why try and why bother?  I have been trying to let her grow up and haven't been asking about her grades this past 6 weeks.  Actually didn't think I had too!  My point being that she seems to start out every 6 weeks with grades that are not where they should or could be so she and I spend the last 2 weeks trying to get her grades where they need to be.

This comes after she had been on probation for NJHS which she worked so hard to become a part of only to be dropped recently.  Such a shame to work so hard for this honor in my opinion to have it be gone as fast as you got there!  I know, this is not what defines her now or in the future but it all helps down the road should she decide to go to college, right?  Also,  I have spent a lot of time as well as her mentor from church, discussing doing the hard things and taking the time to do what you do, the best you can the first time.

So tonight I sit here ready to throw in the towel.  At this point, I am going to let her go and will see where she goes from here.  This is a tough spot to be in but when you get to this point, it seems no matter how much or what you say, the only thing that is going to help her mature is to find the way that works for her despite my willingness to help and make suggestions out of LOVE.  (What do parents know right, nothing in the eyes of teenagers so it seems)  I will always be here to pick her up so when she falls, it will be up to her as to how she responds and reacts to challenges. I feel like I have said my peace.  So today, is another tough day.  She gives back her I Phone and gets a phone to call out or receive calls only.  I will see how hard she is willing to work to get it back as well as her social life which seems to be the most important thing in her life, along with going to church where she loves to share Him with those in her circle.  (Why does parenting have to be so full of joys and frustrations?)

I know one thing, the more you care, the more you are disappointed when your efforts turn out differently then you pictured. I often think of how our Heavenly Father sees us when we fall constantly.  We are no different then our children, I think that is why I want things to be so different.

On a sweeter note tonight, here is my angel!
 Start Strong and Finish Strong is my new mantra for her!!  Love these pictures of Demi and her squad for their spring photo shoot earlier in 2014.  Aren't they beautiful?  Love them and their families and this journey we have taken together.  Demi made the cheer team again for her 9th grade year.  We are looking forward to this year even more because two of her best friends made it too.  It has been such a blessing and expensive, lol!

I will keep you posted so stay tuned to the story He is writing for us <3 p="">
So today I had lunch with a dear friend who I cherish and adore, she is such a blessing!  I really needed to have some time to try to figure out which way I need to go with my career and life as a family.  The road I am on is one that I am not happy and of fulfilled with and changes need to be taken and soon.  I feel so drained which is another reason why I am at this point with Demi.  My life is so out of balance and for amny reasons, I am sure you can tell by the way I am all over the place tonight.

I am sure I am not alone but isn't it funny when we experience life, we always feel like we are the only ones who must be bad moms and or can't seem to do anything right.  I am so ready for God to take me somewhere wonderful and to open a door that I could never have dreamed up for myself, my family, and His Kingdom.  I am so ready!!!

Praying you can find a few things to be thankful for as you go through your day.  Today I am thankful for:  1. the gift of life, my daughter, my family, my friends, my 3 jobs even though I am soo soo tired, my health, a running car and the friend who has loaned it to me, the fact that I can buy simple things like TP, a DP from McDonalds, a night off to blog and read which by the way, will share some amazing books before I finish tonight, my prayer journal for Demi, the home are co-existing in, and the warmer weather today here in Texas.

Here are the latest books I have read and have loved:  The Noticer and The Noticer Returns by Andy Andrews, The Wild Goose Chase by Mark Batterson, and Your Divine Fingerprint by Keith Craft.  Right now I am reading The Traveler's Gift by Andy Andrews and In A Pit With a Lion On A Snowy Day by Mark Batterson.  I am also reading and have started can i have and do it all please by christane caine.  So many books, not enough time!!

So it is time to say good night until tomorrow so I can read and write in my daughter's journal while reading my bible to leave her a message and verse for the day.  I have so loved leaving her messages and life lessons in her journal for her 13 birthday.  I can't wait to give it to her someday.

Hugs and love and praying you know you are valued and loved too -

Diana aka BiT

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Joshua 1:9 Foundation To Honor PFC Joshua Islam (My Nephew Who Celebrated His 19th Birthday In The Arms of Jesus This Past Week)

I am hoping you please take a moment to go to the foundation that my family has set up to honor Joshie's life and the causes he was so passionate about in his short but well-lived life of 18 years.  Thank you so much!

Joshua passed away on January 13th, 2014 while at a training for the Marine Corps at Camp Pendleton in CA while training for Recon.

Here is the post my sister wrote on FB to share his 19th birthday with family and friends:

19 yrs. ago our lives changed forever. God blessed our family with a beautiful son. You were always our "Tigger". You bounced back every time life knocked you down or stole your stripes. You brought much joy, laughter, fun, excitement, adventure, and love to our family. Your leadership on the baseball field and in the US Marine Corps did not go unnoticed. Thanks for always walking with your head held high. I know you lived your life with little regret. Today is your "Golden Birthday" - 19 on the 19th- Son, you were right again...This will be the best year of your life..You are back in the arms of Jesus. Happy Birthday Son...Semper Fi!! May your memory live on...

Both her and my brother-in-law will hold on to the HOPE of seeing him soon as will the rest of us as we remember him this week at the Celebration of Life in Florida and the Memorial in NC.  He lived life with so much passion and love.  He was so excited to starting his new season in the Marines upon graduating from BootCamp on January 9th.  He will be our Warrior Forever.  #RIPjoshislam #6warriorforever

Love to you and hope you enjoyed the gift of life today.  Thankful for so much but especially for my faith, family, and friends today!!

Diana aka BiT

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Happy Happy 2014 - Handbook 2014

HAPPY HAPPY 2014 !!!!



1.       Drink plenty of water. 
2.       Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar. 
3.       Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.. 
4.       Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy 
5.       Make time to pray. 
6.       Play more games 
7.       Read more books than you did in 2013 
8..       Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day 
9.       Sleep for 7 hours. 
10.    Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile. 


11.    Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 
12.    Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment. 
13.    Don't over do. Keep your limits.. 
14.    Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 
15.    Don't waste your precious energy on gossip. 
16.    Dream more while you are awake 
17.    Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.. 
18.    Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with His/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness. 
19.    Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others. 
20.    Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present. 
21.    No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 
22.    Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.  Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime. 
23.    Smile and laugh
24.    You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.... 


25.    Call your family often. 
26.    Each day give something good to others. 
27.    Forgive everyone for everything.. 
28.    Spend time w/ people over the age of 70 & under the age of  6. 
29.    Try to make at least three people smile each day. 
30.    What other people think of you is none of your business. 
31.    Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. 


32.    Do the right thing! 
33.    Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 
34.    GOD heals everything. 
35.    However good or bad a situation is, it will change.. 
36.    No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 
37.    The best is yet to come.. 
38.    When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it. 
39.    Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Merry Christmas 2013 and Happy New Year in 2014 from Texas!!!

I hope you and your family had a wonderful Christmas spending quality time with family and friends enjoying the real reason we celebrate this season in December.

Luke 2:11

English Standard Version (ESV)
11 For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.

In the book of Matthew, we are reminded that Jesus was born and sent to save us for our sins. 

A gift I am so thankful for everyday!

So today, I have a much needed day off to rest, read, and reflect on what I hope and pray that my life will reflect in 2014.

Each year I since 2007, I have chosen a word for the year.  This year I am looking at several resources, one which is christian based driven.  I will also use some of Ali Edward's My One Little Word list to add to my My One Word list.  Both have blogs which I will link up here for you too.

2007 - Live
2008 - JOY
2009 - Best
2010 - New
2011 - Intention
2012 - Dream
2013 - Amazing
2014 - 

So here are some blogs to help you find a word and some of the information of how and why these have been brought to life by several hoping to bring a new light on the life they want to live and suggestions on how to do this:

I am going to try and create a list of my own today and if I am able to get this done, will come back and share my list of words which will include many from both lists.

What plans or resolutions do you have for the coming year?

This year has been filled with so many blessings and I will admit, the older I become, the more I begin to value what is really important.  Loving God with all my heart, sharing His love with everyone so that they will experience eternal life someday, spending quality time and loving my family and friends, training up my daughter so that she will live a life like Jesus, heaven on earth, and being the BEST I can be in all I do, say, and feel with my body, soul, and mind.  Simple yet so hard to do on most days because we are human.

Would love to hear from you and if you have ever printed your blog posts, would you recommend the site that did this for you.  Also what did it cost?  I have been writing and blogging since 2007.

Praying you have an amazing day living a life you LOVE with those who mean the most to you.  I have to say, that I am so blessed and feeling so loved and because of the unconditional gifts of love and presents that have been given to me and my daughter this Christmas season.  God has once again shown me that when we keep our eyes focused on Him, that he will take care of all our needs and provide.  In this case, it is not about the money or gift cards but feeling the love from Him through others who were able and willing to do so.  I love being on the giving side and love the opportunity to do for others less fortunate or unable to do for themselves.  The word "Grateful" does not seem to be enough but He knows my heart.  It has been our village of loved ones, ones we know and complete strangers that have helped us throughout the year.  His hands are in it all and that is why it is so important for us to live our lives centered around Christ.  The challenges and enormous load of work have been great but I seem to have everything I need including energy. I give God all the glory and know that he has directed the paths and hearts of those in our lives to give and it will be such a blessing to give back and LOVE everyone as did Jesus and that He continues to surround us with amazing people in which our village shines so brightly.  

Now, here is my gift to you today, a new and wonderful song by Brandon Heath called Just A Girl -

I hope you enjoy it as much as I do!!

Hugs and Prayers,


Friday, December 6, 2013

The Gift to Love ~

The greatest gift you can give to yourself is to love God and then love yourself as your love your neighbors.

If we all did this just a little more, the world would be a better place and one with more compassion instead of judgement.

If we would step up and lead by example, with our own children and families, we would BE the change the world sees.

So kind of IMPACT will you make tomorrow and in the days to come?

Be blessed and safe and know YOU MATTER to me and Him - '


Sunday, November 10, 2013

Values.........Which Ones Do You Live By?

Explore Another Value



















































Ran across this as I try to narrow down my word or phrase for 2014 - 

Have you ever participated in the One Little Word for My One Word and if so, have you decided on your new word for the upcoming year?

What is at the top of your list of things to do this week and what is one piece of advice you feel is worth passing along today?

Have a blessed week and remember, there are so many things to be thankful for if you will open the eyes of your heart today.


Does anyone get my posts??

Thanks, just trying to see if my posts are able to be read and or if I just don't have any visitors and comments.

Either way, thanks for letting me know  -

Have a blessed weekend friends,


Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Thankful Day 5 ~

Grateful that my parents celebrated 37 years of marriage together before my dad passed away and that today would be their 52nd Anniversary. Growing up in a military family offered us the opportunity to live in amazing countries like Portugal as well as many states upon moving here to Texas in 1977. Love that I grew up with a brother so close in age and that I have 2 wonderful and sweet sisters to share my daughter and life with today. Between all of us, there are 13 grandchildren that will carry on their legacy and one angel in heaven with dad today. #blessed

Thankful Tuesday and a night off to be with my daughter, seems nights are few and far between with work and a teen's busy life both socially and school wise.



Thankful Day 4 ~

Thankful Day 4 ~ Basic Necessities 

Hope you had a great Tuesday, once again I am reminded daily of the simple and basic things that make life so much easier such as light, heat, cars, and H2O.


Sunday, November 3, 2013

Thankful Day 3 ~

Thankful Day 3 ~ Thankful for our village of family and friends and those that God has placed in our lives!!  

I am always saying it is such a small world and when I stop and think about all the amazing friends in our circle, He just goes to show me daily with purposeful and intentional plans that He is a great God so full of wonderful gifts through each and every one we meet and encounter.

So blessed He loves us and that we have the opportunity to share His love all the while we get to LOVE Him with every piece of who we were created to BE.

MADE with Love,


Thankful Day 2 ~

Thankful Day 2 ~ Being a mom, there are not enough words to express how much I love my daughter and how blessed I feel that God gave me such a huge responsibility in raising her up to be a God loving young lady!



Thankful Day 1 ~

Thankful Day 1 ~ The gift of life today with sunshine.

Please join me in 30 days of blog posts with what your are thankful for this Thanksgiving.  I hope to continue this going into the Christmas holidays and new year.

Have a blessed day and week full of His blessings, love, and joy!!

MADE (Make a Difference Everyday) with LOVE,


Saturday, October 12, 2013

Do Any of You Make Money from Blogging???????? Traffic on Blogs??

If so, would you share how you got started and what is the best way to go about setting up a blog such as yours?

Also what do you do to bring traffic to your blog?  It has been over a year since someone has commented on my blog.  Now I know I haven't been consistent over the last 2 years but I am committed to blogging again.

This is my personal blog so I don't do this for comments but for writing for our legacy and story.

Thanks and hope you had a great Saturday!!


Huge Giveaway from DCWVINC This Weekend!!!!!!

I hope you will join the fun by going to their blog and link here.  There will be 6 winners.  I can't wait to see their new paper and lines!!


Listening To and Communicating With Our Children ~

If you ever want to know how you're doing as parents or what your children think of your parenting, just ask them. Be ready for the truth from their perspective. Many times, our attempts to love and discipline are nothing like what we had prayed and hoped for in their eyes and hearts. What children really want is their voices to be heard too (we don't have to agree but just LISTEN) and their feelings acknowledged. More importantly, this type of conversation opens the door for COMMUNICATION.

With each day as a gift from above, I cherish the conversations I have with my teenager as the times seem less and less with the busyness of schedules.  Our best conversations take place in the car.  Where do yours take place?

Have a blessed day and remember, do everything today with passion and purpose as if every breath will be your last not wasting one second of your day!


Friday, October 11, 2013

Can you recommend an image sizing site that is free?

I had one before I switched computers that I loved but can't seem to remember what it is, thanks if you can help me out!

Also have any of you set up blogs that are free here on Blogger that have some extra features?

Thanks for getting back to me this weekend,


What are 3 things you most like to read about on blogs or your 3 favorite blogs and why??

If you take the time to visit my blog, would you mind commenting on my questions above?

Thanks so much and hope you have a joy filled fall day!!  We are looking forward to a long weekend and some fun here in Texas maybe with Big Tex!


Wednesday, October 2, 2013

News Story about our Leader ~

Not sure if this is true or factual but wanted to put it here so I can watch it before it is deleted on the blog and or FB.

I will continue to pray for our President and his family,girls because they are children of God and will continue to pray for our leaders through this Govt Shut Down that is hurting and affecting many people.  When will it stop?

Hope you have a great day while I enjoy a day off from school for Parent/Child Meetings.  My challenge to you today, change the world for the better with an act of kindness!!!


Sunday, September 22, 2013

This blog post pretty much sums up where I am and how I have felt as of late but like many hold on to FAITH and HOPE to get us through the season we are in and have been in.  I hope you enjoy this post!

Oh, did you notice that the Cowboys got a Big Win today?  Love my Romo and America's Team here in Dallas.

Enjoy this first day of fall,


Live A Life You Love ~

The time is NOW, it is the time to change what I am doing so that I can find the true joy in living a life that I enjoy and am passionate about again.

Are you at that place?  If so how did you get there and what do you recommend, I found this website and wanted to save the steps so that I can review the steps that were taken and suggested, I know what I want to do, I just have to put the plan in place that will take me there NOW.

Hope you had a blessed day and enjoyed what you did with those in your life -